I think about both. Sometimes it’s balanced equally, while at other times, one matters more than the other. But, both expression and impact are always important to me.
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Failed Relationships Made Me Freeze My Eggs — Ashmusy
Content creator and social media influencer, Amarachi Amusi, popularly known as Ashmusy, tells FAITH AJAYI about her career, decision to freeze her eggs and other issues
Why did you decide to freeze your eggs at this point in your life?
I really wanted to secure my future as a mother. Motherhood is very important to me, and I want to be sure that I will become a mum in the future, no matter what happens. I arrived at that clarity after going through a few serious relationships that I genuinely believed would end in marriage, but they didn’t.
I also realised that many men these days are not emotionally available or emotionally mature enough to be husbands, no matter how promising they may initially seem. That made me understand that finding the right partner might take longer than I expected. Because of that, I decided to secure my future and play safe.
How did you first learn about egg freezing, and what kind of research or conversations shaped your understanding of the process?
I first learnt about egg freezing when Uriel (a former Big Brother Naija contestant) froze her eggs a few years ago. I saved the information somewhere because I thought it was such a smart decision. I told myself that no matter how complicated relationships become, at least she had secured a future chance at motherhood, and being a mother is one of the most important things to me.
Also, I did a lot of research. I asked doctors several questions, consulted ChatGPT, used different search engines and read extensively online. I discovered that it is actually a safe process used to preserve a woman’s eggs. The eggs are extracted from the ovaries and stored in nitrogen until one is ready to conceive through IVF or artificial insemination. I studied all of that carefully before making my decision.
What emotions did you experience before, during and after making that decision?
Before making the decision, I experienced clarity and acceptance. Earlier in life, I was convinced I would get married before turning 30, but when I turned 30 and it still hadn’t happened, I had to confront reality.
At first, there was panic, pressure and fear, but eventually I reached a point of acceptance. Once I accepted where I was in life, I found clarity and began to heal. That clarity helped me focus on the next step, which was securing my future as a mother regardless of what was happening in my love life.
During and after the process, I felt fulfilled, satisfied and genuinely happy. I felt relieved knowing that this important aspect of my future had been secured.
In what ways do you think freezing your eggs will impact your future, both personally and professionally?
It has given me peace of mind. I feel safe, secure and relaxed now. I can calmly take my time to find the right partner without feeling pressured by age or my biological clock. It has brought me peace, happiness and fulfilment.
How has the decision redefined your idea of motherhood?
It made me realise that, by God’s grace, I can secure one of my biggest dreams for myself, with or without anyone else.
However, it hasn’t changed my idea of womanhood because a woman remains a woman, regardless of whether she has children or not. But it has definitely changed my idea of motherhood because now I feel like a part of me already exists somewhere, waiting for me to protect and nurture.
Your recent trip to Zambia looked intense and exhilarating. What drew you to those high-risk activities?
It was simply the desire to explore life fully. I wanted the adrenaline rush, the excitement and the thrill. I just love living life to the fullest.
What did those experiences in Zambia unlock for you mentally?
They unlocked my bravery. I never imagined I could do some of the things I actually did there. These were activities I used to see online and immediately say, “God forbid, I could never do that.” But I did them.
Now I feel brave, powerful and unstoppable. I feel like a warrior. I genuinely feel like I can conquer the world after those experiences.
How did pushing your limits during that trip affect your relationship with your body?
It made me realise that my body is far stronger and more capable than I ever knew. It showed me that I can achieve almost anything I set my mind to. It felt amazing, and I have no regrets.
Would you say stepping into fear is now part of your personal growth strategy?
Yes, definitely. I feel mentally stronger and braver after those experiences, so I would say embracing fear has become part of my growth process.
You often speak about success with a lot of passion. How did watching your mother shape your definition of success?
My mother is my biggest inspiration. Watching her struggle to feed, train and sustain my siblings and I made me realise very early in life that I had no choice but to become successful.
What lessons from your mother do you consciously carry into your daily life?
She taught me that, as a woman, you can achieve whatever you set your mind to. Women are much stronger than they often realise, and no matter how difficult life gets, you can overcome it.
As the first child, how did childhood experiences shape your personality growing up?
I don’t know if I recognised it as trauma back then because it felt normal at the time. I carried a lot of responsibilities as a child, including taking care of my siblings, cooking, washing clothes and cleaning.
Sometimes, when I think about it now, I feel emotional because I realise I suffered a lot as a child. At eight years old, I already felt like an adult. It forced me to grow up too quickly.
At what point did you realise those experiences were influencing your present life?
Probably in my early twenties. That was when I became conscious enough to understand the kind of life I had lived and the responsibilities I had carried from such a young age.
What intentional steps have you taken to heal from that experience?
I have learnt to prioritise myself more. I rest more now, travel more and do things that genuinely make me happy, such as going to the spa or watching movies. For so long, I focused on carrying everyone else while neglecting myself.
How do you ensure your past does not dictate your present relationships or decisions?
I don’t think my past controls me because I am very open-hearted and optimistic, sometimes even to a fault. Even after heartbreak or betrayal, I still find myself giving the next person genuine love and trust.
I keep learning lessons every day. Sometimes, I tell myself I’ve learnt, only to make another mistake again. But that’s just who I am— open-hearted and free-spirited. Depending on how people see it, that can either be a strength or a weakness.
What initially attracted you to acting?
I have wanted to act since around 2010, maybe even earlier. But at the time, I had to focus on school and go through the usual auditions and casting struggles.
Eventually, I moved into content creation because it gave me more control over my schedule and opportunities. Still, I always planned to return fully to acting before my thirties, and that’s exactly what I’ve started doing over the past two years. So in many ways, I’m still just beginning my acting journey.
What kind of stories are you most interested in telling?
I love emotional stories because I’m a deeply emotional person. I am drawn to stories about love, betrayal, heartbreak, suspense and tragedy.
What does growth look like for you?
I want to produce more movies, explore different creative opportunities and fully showcase the talent and passion I have kept inside me for years.
How does creativity help you communicate deeper messages about yourself and your brand?
I try to create relatable stories, such as things I have personally experienced or witnessed in real life. Whether they are funny or emotional, I want people to connect with them on a real level.
When you’re creating, do you think more about expression or impact?
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Actor Baba Ijesha Welcomes Baby Boy
Actor Olanrewaju Omiyinka, popularly known as Baba Ijesha, has announced the birth of his son.
The actor disclosed this in an Instagram post on Monday, sharing a maternity photoshoot featuring himself and his wife.
Expressing gratitude to God, Baba Ijesha revealed that the couple welcomed a baby boy named King Kagar Omiyinka.
He wrote, “In quiet ways, in unseen ways, God has been writing a story only He could tell. We thank the Almighty for blessing us with a healthy baby boy.
“God gave me more than I prayed for. My ever beautiful wife, strong Jagaban, Abikese de mi owo, @ceolumineeofficial, who became the mother of my son, King Kagar Omiyinka.”
The announcement attracted congratulatory messages from fans and colleagues in the entertainment industry.
Baba Ijesha was released from prison in November 2025 after serving a jail term following his conviction in a child sexual assault case.
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Baba Ijesha: None Of My Exes Is A Paedophile – Nkechi Blessing Blasts Critics
Nollywood actress Nkechi Blessing Sunday has slammed those who berated her for questioning the shocking marriage and child announcement of convicted actor Olanrewaju Omiyinka, widely known as Baba Ijesha.
Naija News earlier reported that Baba Ijesha had announced the birth of his son on his Instagram page on Monday.
Baba Ijesha welcomed his son with fashion designer Abiodun Folashade Tokunbo, famously called CEO Luminee.
The news stunned social media users, drawing mixed reactions ranging from warm congratulations to outright disbelief as Baba Ijesha was released from jail in November 14, 2025.
Reacting to the announcement on CEO Luminee’s Instagram page, Blessing openly questioned the news. She commented, asking if she was expected to write “congratulations.” She later posted a video displaying her shock, wondering aloud if the images and videos were generated by Artificial Intelligence (AI).
Nkechi’s skepticism quickly drew fire from critics. Trolls swarmed her page, blasting her for her negative stance. Several commenters questioned her moral authority to judge CEO Luminee’s marital choices, claiming the actress had “changed men like clothes” in her own past.
Refusing to back down, Blessing fired back via her Instagram page. She admitted to her dating history but delivered a stinging defense of her past choices.
“I indeed have dated men,” Blessing stated. “But at least none of them could be said to be a pedophile.”
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Blood Sisters Season 2 Answers Old Questions, Then Creates New Problems (REVIEW)
Blood Sisters season 1 earned its hype. It was a genuinely refreshing entry in Nollywood, and a story that reminded you the industry could do taut, gripping television when it wanted to. So when season 2 arrived, the goodwill was already there. The question was whether the show knew what to do with it.
Probably, they didn’t need to make a second season. With one extra episode, season 1 could have tied its loose ends and left audiences either fighting about whether justice belongs only to the privileged or hopeful that things can indeed work out in the end. Either exit would have been satisfying. But season 2 exists, and here we are.
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To be fair, it opens on solid ground. Season 1 never gave us a definitive closer, and season 2 at least has the decency to answer the questions it left dangling. There is an escalating middle that works, mostly. But somewhere along the way, the show loses the plot, and by the time the finale arrives, what should have been a landing feels more like a stumble.
Where the season genuinely succeeds is in its moral architecture. Almost no one here is simply good or simply bad, and that appears to be entirely intentional.
You can understand why Kemi and Sarah did what they did and still acknowledge that desecrating a body crosses a line. You can recognise Uduak as a terrible mother and still feel something for a woman who lost her son.
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The show seems invested in the idea that people are capable of both cruelty and justification in the same breath, and that is a more honest portrayal of human nature than most Nigerian productions attempt.
The two leads also carry visible arcs across the season. Kemi and Sarah move from frightened women trying to stay invisible to something sharper, more ruthless, survival-focused in a way that shows growth rather than convenience.
The cast as a whole is strong, with no obvious weak links, though singling out any one performance for the gold medal would be difficult. Different actors shine in different scenes, which is actually a compliment to the ensemble.
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The dialogue holds up too, with occasional slips that are forgivable enough not to derail anything. Visually, the show maintains a consistent tone throughout, and the score is one of its strengths. It is woven into the texture of the story rather than announced over it, which is not always a given.
The pacing, however, is a problem. The season drags in stretches that feel designed for a different viewing rhythm, a rhythm where you are watching at full speed rather than inching forward. It is a recurring tendency in this space, but it does not make it less frustrating.
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Then there is the violence, and it’s not the plot-driven kind. The survival and prison scenes, those come with the territory. The concern is the casual, domestic kind.
A marital dispute that edges into sexual coercion is resolved without consequence by the next scene. A disabled husband beaten nearly to unconsciousness, and then the couple is fine again. These moments are presented as texture rather than examined as a problematic pattern, and the show does not seem to notice the weight it is dropping.
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Femi’s wife also suffers from a poorly resolved arc. She comes in with edge, an early instigator with a hunger for control, and exits the season recast as selfless. The pivot is never earned.
As for the ending, it suggests a third season may be coming, but it lays no real groundwork for one. Loose threads are tied off messily, what could have been a clean directional path gets fractured into too many parts, and the cumulative effect is exhaustion rather than anticipation.
Blood Sisters season 2 is not without merit. The performances, the moral complexity, the score, they all remind you what this show can be. But it needed tighter editing, more considered handling of its domestic violence subplots, and an ending that respected its own story enough to make it work.
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VERDICT: Worth watching, but manage your expectations coming off season 1. If you are willing to speedwalk a few stretches, the performances and the moral complexity make it a decent watch
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